Most parents will see immediate results because we give you instant fixes. To make the results permanent requires you to get the basics down.This could be a matter of hours, days, weeks, or months. You go at your own pace.
All parenting programs work to some degree. We find that parents unhappy with their parenting results are using parenting activities that work towards goals they don’t want. If you agree with our goals for children and parents, you will be very happy with our training.
No. We find that our program works best with younger children. To paraphrase Frederick Douglas, "It is easier to raise young children than to correct adults." Children “waiting to escape” are more difficult to correct. That said, there is always something that a parent can do to help their children.
We started as a group of parents who wanted to raise good kids. We soon discovered that the parents had to be fixed first. When parents act rightly, the kids respond rightly, and it’s much easier for both parents and children to handle their environment. Therefore, when children behave poorly, we fix the parents first. Besides, parents are more motivated to change than children.
Activities like riding a bike, playing a musical instrument, playing sports, etc. all require practice. To achieve excellence as a parent, you must practice. Skills Drills give you the chance to practice a skill so that when you need it with your children, you’re ready and can act instinctively and immediately.
We have two guarantees.
1. If you don’t change anything, you’ll continue to get the same results you’ve been getting.
2. If you learn your lessons and implement them accordingly, you will get the results we talk about. But as in any coaching program, your results will depend on how well you implement the program.
As you learn the material, your parenting will become more instinctive, and you will automatically solve problems quickly and permanently. This doesn’t fade as long as you keep the basics in place. You can repeat the course as often as you want, and you can communicate with other TRFA parents and find out what they are doing.
No. While general parenting principles are all the same. The implementation will be different from parent to parent. That’s because we’re all different. Mom may hug her children while dad may high-five them. You will still enjoy your favorite foods, clothing, music, books, movies sports etc. You will still attend your church and select your own careers. You Are Still You. You’re just a smarter you.
We haven’t seen any statistics that prove “talk therapy” is effective. We find that teaching people to do the basics correctly enables parents to find their own permanent solutions.Talk therapy may work fine on adults when it’s well directed. But children are hands-on.